NEW YORK — January means a brand new yr and a brand new life aside for a lot of married couples.
Divorce legal professionals say their enterprise all the time booms within the first month of the yr with individuals eager to name it quits.
As CBS2’s Hazel Sanchez reported, it’s a busy time of yr at Alton Abramowitz’s workplace in Midtown, Manhattan, throughout what’s been unofficially dubbed “divorce month.”
“What I fairly often hear is: ‘I’m not going to spend one other New Yr’s Eve with that individual,’” he stated.
Abramowitz has been a divorce lawyer for forty five years and says in January he’s all the time busy dealing with new shoppers who stored the peace in the course of the holidays and at the moment are dashing to chop ties. Many are unprepared and don’t know their rights.
“They’re committing to provide an excessive amount of or they have been prepared to simply accept too little,” he stated.
He and Chris Schiffer, a licensed monetary planner who focuses on divorces, say the primary piece of recommendation is to hunt authorized and monetary recommendation earlier than calling it quits.
“You need to begin with a monetary planner,” stated Schiffer. “And why? Can they afford to get divorced?”
He says by no means permit feelings or vengeance to steer divorce calls for.
“What that’s is, they’re making an attempt to get greater than they’re entitled to,” he stated. “Second largest mistake is individuals look to get the home they usually get it, they usually attempt to hold it and discover out they will’t afford it.”
Abramowitz says typically individuals are higher off staying collectively on paper however dwelling separate lives.
“There are instances the place I discourage it, the place they could lose vital rights, notably in the event that they’re aged shoppers and there are social safety profit points or pension points,” he stated.
“Perhaps attempt divorce counseling first, and perhaps some issues could be resolved, perhaps it isn’t so dangerous,” stated Schiffer.
Many household therapists say January is a busy time for them too, with sad couples resolving to make their marriages work.
In accordance with the Middle for Illness Management, the variety of divorces nationwide has truly reached an all-time low of roughly three divorces per 1,000 married couples.